At a recent Relief Society presidency meeting, Tia Langston shared with us a talk from a 2007 General Conference called “Feed My Sheep”, by Silvia H. Allred. Our discussion prompted many inspiring thoughts about how our monthly visits to our sisters can create bonds of love, friendship and trust. Following are some excerpts from Sister Allred’s talk.
Consider the principle taught in John 21:15-17. The Lord asked Peter, “Lovest thou me…?” Peter answered, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee.” And the Lord replied, “Feed my sheep.” As deciples of Christ, we too declare that we love Him. So how do we go about feeding His sheep? One of the ways is through Visiting Teaching. Through Visiting Teaching, we build caring relationships with each sister and offer support, comfort and friendship.
To accomplish those purposes, visiting teachers should 1. Visit each assigned sister regularly, 2. Learn of the spiritual and temporal needs of the sister and her family, 3. Offer appropriate assistance, and 4. Give spiritual instruction through a monthly message.
The Lord has blessed women with divine attributes of love, compassion, kindness and charity. Through our monthly visits, we have the power to bless each sister as we extend our arms of love and kindness and give the gifts of compassion and charity.
Through our regular monthly visits to our sisters, we can create bonds of love, friendship, and trust. If we listen to the promptings of the Spirit, we will increase our awareness of other people’s needs. If we act according to those divine promptings, we can be a blessing to those in need. But we have to be willing to give—of our substance and our time. The true measure of our life is not how much we get but how much we give. Visiting teaching provides opportunities to give as we attend to the physical, spiritual, and emotional needs of each other.
Visiting teaching is also a very effective tool in retention and reactivation efforts. When a shepherd cares, many of those who have wandered away can still be reclaimed. They may respond to an invitation to return to the fold.
We can and should be able to provide meaningful relief. We have the gospel perspective in our lives. We have divine promptings encouraging us to do good. Let us commit to effective visiting teaching. We can provide temporal and spiritual nourishment. We can and should offer understanding and be able to teach doctrine. We can relieve spiritual hunger and feed the sheep. Feeding the sheep might mean strengthening and nourishing the new members, the less active, or even the fully active members.
Let us pledge an increased commitment to extend our arms of love and compassion to bless, help, and strengthen each other as we go about doing our visiting teaching with a willing and joyful heart. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.